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Somebody wrote Shaykh Fakhruddin Owaisi, Shaykh Hassan Cisse's Muqaddam that we find Tijanis in Cinemas watching movies, Dance Parties, Drinking, Hanging out & things like that. The Niasse people everywhere do that. Shaykh Fakhruddin quoted plenty of works by older contemperory Tijani Shaykhs that if a Tijani is watching a movie in the Cinema, he's still busy with Allah, if he's in a Dance Party he's still busy with Allah. If he's in a club or pub he's still busy with Allah.

First of all for most of us the Tariqah Tijani there's no one around, it's just Allah & a Tijani alone the rest of it is just mere part of different projections. Secondly, even if there is someone around or a house full of friends, family & kids. For a Tijani follower he already knows that they don't exist at all & he's still busy with Allah. But if he gets to enjoy life every now & then that's "Haza min fazli rabbi's", manifestation like Shaykh Ibrahim explains in great detail in the Kashf Ilbas or Removal of Confusion, Trans: Zachary Valentine Wright, Yahya Weldon & Mukhtar Holland, Fons Vitae 2010. Something similar to what Shaykh Hamza Yusuf said that, "Stegnant water one day will surely smell & taste bad."

Thirdly, since there is absolutely no one around & the real wife & kids could also be a part of projection then it's out of the question that he looks here & there looking for answers. The only way to look for answers is to focus on Allah with the beads in hand & open the communications channel with Him. Looking & running left & right based on something that doesn't even exist. I'm really sorry but that isn't our cup of Tea.