Patterns

In Islam, there are patterns to which a certain family behaves and reacts until or unless something went concurrently wrong. Names for that matter have attributions attached and determines the persons behavior. If you haven't already noticed the Fathers with their Son named Muhammad, behave differently then the rest of other names. It also affects their family theater as well as their dresses. Similarly, Fathers of Ali will have a different pattern of reaction and behaviors. Now, your question would be who is dominant in a person, the name or his reel? My answer is, if the name is correct then the reel would automatically be.

It also needs to be understood that the people who largely talk about the personalities, has in their stories a pattern related to anyone who will grow-up to be that person, regardless if he's that person or not. Now, if they are going to talk about, let's say a person who claims to be someone. It's going to trigger the negative energies that they have already prepared for someone claiming to be so and so. And they have an answer to all the personalities and names of Islam.

When you join a Sufi Order, the first thing a Shaykh does is take you out of the name science. And cast you according to who you are or deserve to be or the way he wants you to be. Firstly, you start from following exactly the way your Shaykh is, but a time comes when you develop your own style and that's the time you deserve a Permission to carry forward.

In the Forces, similarly you get so-much training that you forget who you are. And after sometime, you start developing respect for yourself and others. Being true to the cause and missions give you the power to make decisions. And with every success, there comes a raise.

Either way, Sufism or Forces. After the family grooming and training, it all comes down to the Jets and Weapons, that of which determines the decision making, behavior as well as the reaction.